They’re Boundaries, Not Weapons.
“Fresh from my therapist’s office. Gave some tools, she did. Up against the wall pal! I got some boundaries to use!”.
So refreshing, talking about boundaries with your therapist, coach friend etc. Sometimes with the empowerment, we forget that we actually love the person we’re setting boundaries with. Even if the person is an acquaintance or co-worker, it still makes sense to be respectful with how you approach them. Depending on the situation and relationship, there may be areas/issues where you won't negotiate and some where you are willing. Regardless, its helpful to remember that boundaries are ideas best used in the service of love and care for self and others.
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